In this day in age, I see a lot of insecure young men. Insecurity is awful, it has the ability to bring out the worst in men and make them do things they wouldn't think they would do. Dealing with an insecure boyfriend is just as awful, men can make an (innocent?) women feel like shit.

But.... as always..... Goooooner is here to save the day.

I have some insights that I think both men and women can get something from. But just remember: Goooooner wasn't born like this, I had to go through hardships and pain to learn what I know. So if you can relate to what I am saying, do not get down yourself. Gooooner might have been in your shoes once too.... now look at him _{[lmao bro chill]}

Women.... lets start with your insecure boyfriend.

Men get insecure when they think they are with a woman that is too good for them. They lack self confidence in the fact that they think you will find someone better than them. When this happens he will insult you, push your buttons, and make you feel like shit. It is not a healthy thing. A man is supposed to protect you, lead you, provide you, fuck you [HARD].... not make you cry because he is an insecure bitch. He is holding you back and causing unneccessary stress in your life, it is not your fault that you outgrew him. He gets scared because he does not want to go through the "hardships" of finding a new hunnnny.

Bottom line girls...... break up with him (usually what it leads to), or tell him to stop acting like a bitch (almost never works), OR, my favorite option..... have him read this article

Men... is this you? Don't worry, I fucccccin' got you. Girls stop reading.... _{[they wont]}

Listen up.... there is absolutely no reason to be insecure. Especially when YOU are the prize, especially when YOU have high IQ. Especially when YOU have high testesterone. It is why I think barbell and learning new things is so important, you will learn that there is far more to life than girls. Then you will begin to gain confidence, confidence in the fact that you can walk around knowing that she is your girl and she knows no one compares to you. Set rules, set boundaries, and then stop fucking worrying. If she wants to fuck another guy I promise that you worrying isn't going to stop her.

"but.. but.... but... Goooooooner..... what if she does cheat on me?"

Simple answer young man... leave her. Don't even give her a reason. Just don't talk to her or even look at her ever again. I promise she will regret it, she will call you, she will text you, hell she might even show up at your front door. Don't answer any of it, don't even read it, block her. When you do this AND you have high IQ/high testesterone/high confidence, then basically she will miss you for the rest of your life. But only IF YOU are the MAN...... It seems like a fair punishment_[LOL]

Besides... being single is fun! It has never been easier to get laid if you are a confident man. Why is it so easy for confident men to get laid in 2020? Because 85% of men lack confidence of any kind.

Bottom line boys.... pick up a fucking barbell. live life with some fucking purpose. stop fucking worrying... and fuck your girl as hard as you can...

- Goooooner